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Funerals are solemn occasions that require a deep understanding of cultural and religious practices to show respect for the deceased and their loved ones. In Christian funerals, particular traditions and customs are observed that reflect the faith’s views on death and the afterlife. This guide explores the essential aspects of Christian funeral etiquette, including appropriate attire, respectful behaviors, and ways to express condolences. By adhering to these practices, attendees can provide comfort and support to the bereaved family while honoring the memory of the deceased in a manner that aligns with Christian beliefs.
Christians believe that they will be granted eternal life in heaven after they die.[1] Christ died for man's sins, thereby allowing everlasting life with God in heaven.[2]
Christian funerals are centred around celebrating the deceased’s life that continues in God’s presence in heaven and providing an avenue for loved ones to grief their loss on earth.
1) Christian Funeral Service
Christian funeral services are typically led by a pastor and attended by family and friends. Hymns are sung and prayers are said to thank God for the life of the deceased and for the eternal life they would have in heaven, and praising God for His mercy.
Psalms 23 is often read, which professes not to fear death for God will always be in their presence.
Christian funeral services are often personalised, with the pastor, families and friends honouring the life of the deceased. Eulogies are commonly given to share memories of the deceased and appreciate their life.
2) Christian Wake or Vigil
Christian Wakes, where all are welcomed to pay their respects to the deceased, are held. Prayers, Hymn and scripture readings also occur during the wake.
Keeping watch of the deceased’s body throughout the night is commonly observed.
3) Cremation or Burial
There is some contention, but cremation is widely viewed to be accepted by Christians in Singapore, since the bible does not forbid it. Burials are almost universally accepted.
A short service is typically conducted before the deceased is cremated or buried at the crematorium.
1) Dress in Dark Colours - Funeral Attire
Refrain from wearing bright colours and opt for darker colours. Black is the common colour of choice. Avoid revealing dressing and lavish jewellery. Modest dressing is preferred.
2) Express Your Condolences to the Family
Upon arrival, greet the family and express your condolences.
3) Listen Respectfully to the Service
Set aside time to attend the service in full, and follow the cues of the pastor, such as when to stand and sing.
4) Flowers, Banners and Donations
Funereal, white flowers and banners are commonly accepted as expressions of condolences.
In Singapore, monetary contributions are also common to aid the family in covering funeral expenses. Donations are voluntary, with chief importance to be sincere in your expression of condolence tothe family.
5) Respect their beliefs, regardless of yours
As with all other religious funerals, please respect the beliefs and traditions of the funeral, regardless of your beliefs. Understanding the meaning behind proceedings aids one in respecting and engaging with them to commemorate the deceased in the way they wanted.
Your presence, empathy and respect will go a long way in remembering and honouring the deceased and provide comfort to their next-of-kin, knowing that they are not alone in grief.
The average price of a Christian Funeral in Singapore is $6,867. Compare, filter and sort prices here.
