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Funeral rites are a significant aspect of Soka culture, providing a structured way to honor the deceased and offer solace to the living. Observing proper etiquette at a Soka funeral is essential in showing respect to the departed and their family. This guide outlines the key aspects of Soka funeral practices, including appropriate attire, traditions, and respectful behaviors. Understanding these elements helps in paying the right respects and supports the grieving process by adhering to cultural norms.
Soka is a Japanese religion rooted in Buddhist beliefs, with similar overarching beliefs. Life and death are viewed are viewed as the same in that both exist within the universe – when death occurs, one’s soul re-merges with the universe, and comes back to life in another form when the time is right.[1]
Soka funerals are centred around aiding the deceased’s next-of-kin grief and reflect and are typically kept simple to avoid detracting from that purpose. Sincerity is a defining trait of Soka, thus refrain from extravagance is exercised.[2]
1) Soka Wakes
Soka wakes are typically not elaborate, with simple decorations and facilities for all to pay their respects to the deceased.
Soka wakes typically last 3 to 5 days.
2) Soka Chanting
Chanting is believed to aid the deceased in his path toward enlightenment, or into the next life, thus an important element of Soka funerals. The Lotus Sutra or Daimoku are typically chanted, and is seen as a way to comfort the family, and respect the deceased.
Chanting is typically lead by leaders from the Soka community, or family and friends themselves. Typically, a priest is not present to avoid extravagance. [3]
3) Cremation or Burial
Soka beliefs are not partial to cremation or burial.
1) Dress in Dark Colours - Funeral Attire
Given the sombre nature of a funeral, refrain from wearing bright colours which represent joy (especially refrain from wearing red). Wearing black is a common choice.
2) Observe Chanting with Respect
While chanting occurs, please observe with respect.
3) Flowers, Banners and Donations
Sending white flowers and banners are accepted in the wake as an expression of condolence.
In Singapore, monetary contributions is common. Contributions are typically used to cover the expenses of the wake by the family.
Donations are voluntary, with chief importance to be sincere in your expression of condolence to the family.
4) Respect their beliefs, regardless of yours
As with all other religions, please respect the beliefs and traditions of the funeral, regardless of your beliefs. Understanding the origins of their traditions and beliefs aids one in respecting the processions.
Your presence, empathy and respect will go a long way in remembering and honouring the deceased and provide comfort to their next-of-kin, knowing that they are not alone in grief.
The average price of a Soka Funeral in Singapore is $5,498. Compare, filter and sort prices here.
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